your question:

05/03/2024 B Doskocil

Hey, Trevor! I got to meet you recently in Carrboro and just wanted to thank you for being so cool to a random starstruck fan (I had the Full of Hell shirt).
Anyway, a question I wanted to ask you is how does it feel to have friends from so long ago that you still are friends with and get to jam/play with regularly? Being an adult is hard and it's easy for friendships to fall by the wayside. I guess I just wanted to point out you're really fortunate to have formed such lasting bonds.

my answer:

I am fortunate for that. I also tend to be loyal as a dog and pretty forgiving.
It’s not that weird though. People change in certain ways as they get older and this contributes to the dynamic being varied from both sides, so if one can maintain some emotional maturity, there are always new ways to look at things.